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Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts

Friday, September 21, 2012

5 Ways To Make Your Relationship Last

5 Ways to make your relationship last.


Relationships are made beautiful when two people come together to share their love for one another. Often, due to fickle differences, the love shared gets lost. This article will teach young lovers on how to keep the flame of their relationship aglow.




1. Honesty - Be honest in your relationship. When two people, from different walks of life, come together to share their love, honesty is the only thing that keeps the relationship from falling apart. With honesty comes trust and with trust, love grows over time. Sowing the seeds of dishonesty will only lead to heartache and broken relationships.

2. Acceptance - Don’t hold impossibly high ideals, when it comes to assessing your partner.It will only lead to disappointment. You should understand that every individual is different and it is their imperfections that make them endearing to us over time. So what if your girlfriend hates playing video games, or thinks that your friends are stupid. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. Accept her for what she is and you will see how strong your relationship grows with time.

3. Communicate - Most relationships go awry because both parties in the relationship assume their partner would automatically know what they are feeling. Instead, why don’t you try telling her how she makes you feel? Communication is the key to any relationship. You are not all-knowing, so without communicating your feelings to her, do not expect a lost-lasting relationship.

4. Compromise - Accept the fact that you are not perfect. The chances of fighting like cats and dogs are enormous. However, knowing when to accept your fault and when to compromise on a certain situation will take your relationship to a long way. A relationship is supposed to be fulfilling enough to complete you. If being in a particular relationship makes you happier than you have ever been, you need to stand by that relationship. If, however, being with her makes you compromise your own happiness, it is not worth the effort.

5. Maintain sexual attraction - In a relationship, sex is beyond the physical gratification. It is the means by which two individuals express their feelings for each another. So, it is very important to be able to keep the passion ignited. Sex is the perfect way to tell your partner how she makes you feel. Not only does it bring two individuals closer, but also bridges any significant gap that might’ve cropped up over time.


As the years go by, you’ll keep revisiting and re-imagining the passion you have for each other. And if you keep at it, you’ll have a sex life that transcends your relationship’s lack of newness and the physical changes that come with time.

A relationship is like a delicate flower. It needs tender and loving care to blossom. By following the above-mentioned methods, you are much closer to ensure that your relationship lasts a long time, even eternity.


(Source: gravityymind)

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

I'm So Sorry I Fell Inlove.



"Desperation kills


But when it's on your sleeve you wear it well

Underneath it all you'll always have this war inside yourself"

"I'm half the world away


I'm letting you go now (go now)

Go Now (go now)"


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This song by Yellowcard has been playing for the past few hours already as I write this new post. This day has been most unproductive for me. Today is one of those days na kung ano-ano nalang talaga pumapasok sa utak ko, mostly problema sa lovelife. BULLSHIT. Ba't kase ganito?


❝I HAVE FALLEN INLOVE WITH A GUY WHO LOVES ANOTHER GUY.❞

There, it has been fuckin' said, ang hirap talaga kasing itago. Kaya lang shit happens talaga. Sa napakaraming taong pwedeng mahulog ang loob ko, doon pa hindi naman ako mahal, hindi interesado sa'kin o kaya naman iba ang gusto at hindi ako. Kaya napapaisip na rin tuloy ako:



At tsaka ba't ba kasi ganito ako? Feeling close sa halos lahat ng kakilala ko, lalong-lalo na sa mga bago kong nakilala sa Ateneo, sa mga SSG peeps. Bakit ba kasi nag-e expect ako ng masyado sa kanila? Bakit? I just can't answer it for myself. Basta ang aram ko, I feel something towards them, towards HIM.'Di ko lang talaga ma-put into words kung ano yung feeling na yun para sa kanya. SHIT. SHIT. and more SHIT. LOVE HURTS.

Just even once, I want to know that feeling.
Gusto kong umiyak. Gustong-gusto ko. Pero siguro hindi ko magawa kasi masyado na akong pagod - pagod magmahal ng mga taong kahit kelan ay 'di ako kayang mahalin pabalik. May mga panahon na tinatanong ko ang sarili ko, ba't di nalang ako naging straight guy, life and things would've been much easier and happier for me. Pero hindi eh, eto ang nararamdaman ko and I want to be open and honest about it. I want someone who can relate to me, talk things with me, comfort me and most of all, LOVE ME. Malakas ang conviction ko na sa Ateneo ko siya mahahanap. Pero SINO? KELAN? :(

Just sad. So sad right now.


I NEED THIS BADLY :(






but then again .. 




❝ I'M SO SORRY. NAGMAHAL LANG AKO NG TOTOO.❞




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